Don't tell him

The only way to know your HIV status is to get tested. Should you be diagnosed like Thomas in the film, you will be put on HIV treatment straight away. 

HIV treatment is free of charge in the UK to all who need it, regardless of citizenship or immigration status. 

The sooner you find out you have HIV and start treatment the better it is for your health. Being on effective treatment means you cannot pass on HIV and can expect to lead a long, healthy life.

Being diagnosed with HIV can be a difficult time. Like Thomas, you might feel upset, shocked or angry. You might be having trouble taking in the things you’ve been told. Don't worry though – we're here to help. Whether you feel you need  to speak to someone or just understand more about living well with HIV. 

If, like Mary in the film, you are living with HIV and have an undetectable viral load but are finding it difficult to tell your partner, or anyone close to you and would like some support, call THT Direct or arrange to speak to one of our online counsellors. 

It’s never been easier to get an HIV test and to get a result quickly. You can get a test in person or order tests online, with free and paid-for options. Many tests will provide you with a result in just a few minutes. If you would like to know more about the kinds of tests available and where you can get them our website can help you.

There are many myths that still surround HIV. Learn what's fact, and what's not.

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If you would like to speak in confidence with someone about issues raised from this film, call THT direct on 0800 802 1221 or click the ‘speak to somebody’ button at the bottom of your phone screen.

These films are dramatisations made with actors and all details have been anonymised to protect the identities of all those who took part in the creative process. Throughout the making of these films people from black African communities have been consulted on an ongoing basis to ensure they reflect real life situations.