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Telling people

If you're considering whether or not to share your status with others, here's some guidance on how and when to do it.

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Friends and family

Whether you tell your friends and family members about your HIV diagnosis will depend on your relationship with them. Confiding in a someone close can be an invaluable source of support. Read more about Friends and family
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Sexual partners

One thing to remember when talking to your sexual partners about your HIV is that if you’re on effective treatment and have an undetectable viral load, you cannot pass on the virus. Read more about Sexual partners
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Employers

There are pros and cons to telling your employers or prospective employers about your HIV diagnosis. Read more about Employers
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Schools and colleges

If you’re a parent of a child with HIV, or if you’re a student with HIV yourself, you may be considering whether or not to tell a teacher or lecturer at your school, college or university. Read more about Schools and colleges
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Healthcare and insurance

Should you tell dentist, GP or insurer that you are living with HIV? Here are a few things you should consider. Read more about Healthcare and insurance

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